The science of mindset and masterful self-coaching to create magic in your life & business
Is this you....?
✅ You’re an ambitious human who loves personal development - you've got your own library of self help books, and you’re no stranger to having a coach,
✅ You love the idea that 'your mind creates your reality' and maybe you've dabbled in the mainstream ‘manifestation’ practises,
✅ You know that 'mindset' work is important (of course),
But...
❔ Sometimes, you feel like you're a little too dependent on a coach, and you'd love to be able to coach yourself and bounce back from doubt and triggers on your own...
❔ Honestly, you’re skeptical of the ‘woo-woo’ manifestation practices, and you're sick of forcing yourself to be 'high vibe' all the time (especially in today's world)...
❔What does 'mindset work' even mean? Surely there's got to be more to it than endless affirmations, morning pages and challenging every single limiting belief, right?
If this sounds like you...
You're in the perfect place.
You've worked with your fair share of coaches, tried journalling diligently every morning, tapping your face until your fingers go numb, and challenging every limiting belief that you can find...
So why does the 'mindset work' of business still feel so complicated?
And why do you feel like you can't get to the bottom of it unless you have a coach?
And does 'manifestation' even work - or is it just magical thinking and a waste of your time and energy?
As an ex-therapist with two Psychology degrees and thousands of hours of coaching and therapy under my belt,
I can tell you this...
Most self-development programs and coaches are teaching mindset work at the surface level.
They cobble together strategies that they learned from their coach who learned it from her coach, and they dump it all on you without teaching you why or how it works...
It's a bunch of self proclaimed 'manifestation experts' diluting complex quantum physics concepts that even Einstein himself didn't pretend to understand fully, or teaching you spiritual 'laws' which actually don't have any grounding in science... (oops, did I really say that?)
They teach you to recite affirmations at yourself in the mirror, to diligently challenge every limiting belief, to stay high vibe, to think new thoughts...
It feels good initially... but it never lasts.
Worse than that? It puts the power outside of you - waiting, wishing and hoping that 'your vibe' is on point before you can 'magnetise' your dreams and desires...
And because of this, you're probably still...
Feeling like you need to be high vibe so you end up avoiding or trying to 'regulate' all of your “negative” emotions (otherwise known as 'bypassing)...
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Setting big goals and intentions (yay, you!) but then procrastinating, or sabotaging every time you get close...
You spend your time trying to crush your limiting beliefs, but you feel like they are never ending and still keep haunting you even though you've journalled about them for days on end..
Visualising as hard as you can, meditating and trying to will your dreams into reality...
Freaking out every time you 'feel out of alignment' or that a 'limiting' belief pops into your head...
Getting 'triggered' by clients, normal business challenges and worrying that you're an 'energetic match' for all the wrong things...
This is all very, very normal.
Why?
Because you're human.
Doubt, imposter syndrome, frustration, fear, resistance to growing - these are all normal parts of being human.
The problem? Most mindset work teaches you to bypass this, to work against your brain's natural way of processing thought and emotion, and to white knuckle your way to changing behavioural habits that have been with you for years.
You end up shaming yourself for the exact same challenges that everyone has.
The truth?
These approaches that you've been taught are scattershot and pseudoscientific.
They've got almost zero grounding in psychology or human behaviour.
They lead you to believe that the power is outside of you.
Worse than that - research is showing us that many of these strategies can actually harm your mental health and the quality of your life, in the long term.
It is quite honestly… holding you back.
The truth is - yes, your mind can impact your reality,
and yes, 'manifestation' is real, but, it's more nuanced than you've been taught.
It's time to learn a better way.
A safe, truly-life changing, psychologically-grounded approach.
An approach that teaches you the crucial skills to...
CREATE 'TRUE' ALIGNMENT TO YOUR 'TRUE' INTENTIONS
🌟 When you set intentions that are rooted in actual desire (not ego, fear or trying to prove or please),
And when we pair this with creating alignment between your desire and your expectations, beliefs, perceptions and actions,
You'll find it so much easier to move towards them, and you won't need to fight that voice in your head that questions whether it's possible for you.
LEARN THE SCIENCE OF SAFE MIND ALTERING TOOLS
🌟 Your mind is wired to tell you stories about the past, the future and what's possible for you. It's also evolved to perceive the world in often unhelpful ways - but when you understand the psychology of this, there are new tricks you can use to get your mind working for you, not against you.
There's a whole toolkit of mind altering tools available to you - tools that genuinely make your experience of being a human far more enjoyable. You can finally say goodbye to struggling with difficult thoughts, worries and stories.
PROCESS RESISTANCE
🌟 There's a part of you that is quite happy where you are because it feels more safe than the unfamiliar. This creates resistance - which can show up as procrastination, sabotage, delaying, distracting.
Instead of just covering up your fears with affirmations, or drowning yourself in meditations, you could learn the self coaching process that helps you get to the root of your fear and resolve it, in minutes.
STOP SABOTAGE + BREAK THROUGH UPPER LIMITS
🌟 We all have 'upper limits' for what we believe is safe and possible for us to create and experience. These self imposed limits are just that - self imposed. Which means, they can be self-changed.
The key? Learning to catch and coach yourself through your moments of sabotage, so that you can reach new levels of visibility, income and 'success' - whatever that means to you.
You'll create a feeling of momentum, waking up each day thinking "this is really working, I'm doing what I once thought I couldn't...!"
PROCESS NORMAL LIFE 'TRIGGERS'
🌟 Challenging moments are not the exception... they're the rule. As you push yourself to live your biggest brightest existence, it's inevitable that you'll meet triggers and challenges. Like... 'failed' launches, client complaints, people talking shit about you, family challenges...
For most, these triggers can throw them totally off track and out of their power.
But, those who know how to hold and coach themselves through these challenges, are the ones who hold their momentum without faltering and struggling.
None of us were taught these skills,
but they are crucial for living a rich, meaningful, fulfilling life.
And when you master these skills,
you become the creator of the life and business you desire.
You realise, that YOU are the magic.
Not some coach. Not some strategy. Not some funnel.
Nah. YOU.
Here's what it looks like to be 'in your magic.'
You're able to confidently and excitedly admit and reach for the BIG intentions that make your heart pound and your body tingle with excitement, even if they make no sense to anyone else...
You know how to go deep to find your resistance to those goals and process it, so that it doesn't escalate into full blown sabotage and distraction...
You can trust yourself to hold the vision and the faith all month, all year, EVEN when it's taking it's time to materialise.
You're climbing higher in the 'upward spiral' of momentum, where you just feel like you're winning day after day...
You trust yourself deeply - you know that you're excellent at what you do, that your definition of success is inevitable,
And you feel completely in your power,
Totally unstoppable.
You gain more traction and momentum...
The wins come faster than ever before.
It almost feels... miraculous.
We teach you the psychology of using your mind to change your reality.
We walk you through our signature, science-backed process step by step, and introduce you to the Experiment that you can use daily to put these skills into practise as you reach for your bigger dreams.
This is a process you'll return to over and over, every time you want to reach for something more with confidence, excitement and anticipation.
We also include a whole bank of bonus pep talks, guided visualisations and self coaching tools to ensure that you can get into your ‘magic’ any time you need in the future.
Meet the You Are The Magic Alumni
You Are The Magic is built to be ‘the only mindset course you’ll ever need’.
Here’s a closer look at our time together…
Pre-work
- Let’s get you set up for success! Learn how to make the most of this program + create the greatest return on your investment - forever.
Module 1: How your Mind Impacts Reality - The Science
- Understand the science of how our mind, emotions and behaviour co-create our realities - this module is crucial for dispelling the myths and pseudoscience that has been keeping you from being a self-coaching master.
Module 2: Your Bigger Dreams
- How to decide on and reach for the semi-delusional goals that your heart actually wants, even if you doubt that it’s possible.
- This module gives you permission to decide what goals are really just ‘shoulds’ and instead, invites you into clarifying the biggest dreams that you have on your heart. We use this intention to guide your transformation throughout the rest of our course.
Module 3: Transmuting Resistance
- Did you know that the procrastination, fear, doubt and ‘self sabotage’ that we experience is actually quite simple to coach yourself through?
- In this module you’ll learn the difference between ‘creation resistance’ vs ‘experience resistance’, and the behavioural-science-backed process to identify and self coach through each of these.
- This module is absolutely crucial for any entrepreneur or leader who has big aspirations for their life, because this process will save you hours of wasted time and energy trying to ‘push’ through old habits of resistance.
Module 4: Creating Internal Alignment
- Think of your expectations, beliefs and perceptions as members of your team. We want them all ‘aligned’ to the goals, so that everyone is moving in the same direction.
- In this module, we teach you the psychology-backed strategies to safely and effectively ‘get your mind on board’ so that you’re seeing and feeling your reality shift day by day.
- You’ll also learn why ‘high vibe’ isn’t required, and how to play with ‘energetic lead measures’ - these are the key to sustainable growth and reaching even your most delusional goals.
Module 5: Creating External Alignment
- Ah yes, the most important part. Your mind impacts reality, absolutely, but your biggest opportunity for change? Your behaviour. How you show up, act, speak, behave in the world.
- This is where you learn to impact your mind using your behaviour, so that you are continually upgrading your reality from all directions. Mind, behaviour and emotions are all working together in cohesion.
Module 6: The Experiment | Putting It All Into Play
- In 2021, I decided to put all of this to the test and I created a 30 day experiment for myself to truly master and test out the impact of this work. When I saw and felt the huge changes to my life and business, I knew that I had to teach this. Since then, I’ve taught this to hundreds of entrepreneurs and now, you’re invited too.
- In this module, I’ll show you how to bring all of these tools together into a simple process that will have you changing your reality in just 20 minutes a day.
Module 7: Self Coaching Strategies
- “Mindset work” isn’t just about aligning your mind and behaviour to the desires you have. Gosh, absolutely not! We live in a world where are continually bombarded with situations that can pull us out of ‘our magic…’
- When life throws sh*t at you (client complaints, family drama, ‘failed launches’ etc etc), how do you coach yourself to create the ‘upward spiral effect’ when all you want to do is downward spiral and eat your feelings?
- I’ll give you simple self coaching strategies so that you can grab your journal, coach yourself to the shift you need, and carry on with your life.
Module 8: Growing Past Your Upper Limits
- What happens once you get to the goal and it becomes your new reality? In this module, you’ll learn how to hold the new reality as your standard, so that it sustains, rather than being afraid that you’re going to lose it all overnight.
- This is where life and business starts to get really, really sweet. You learn that you could truly achieve anything that you set your mind to - this is the power of a truly self led life.
PLUS - A bank of bonuses:
PEP TALKS
These are pre-recorded audios for the moments when you need to a little extra perspective shift, choose your topic and tune in - you'll hear exactly what I'd be saying to a client in this position:
- for when you don’t believe it’s possible
- for when you’re afraid of taking action
- for when you’re procrastinating
- for when a launch didn’t go to plan
- for preparing for a launch
- for when you're feeling uninspired
- for when a client is unhappy
- for when a client wants to quit
- for when you want to put your prices up
These are like having a coach in your pocket, when you need some perspective!
GUIDED VISUALISATION SCRIPTS
For when you need inspiration and connection to new potential realities
Sometimes, it's really hard to tap into new potentials when you don't even know what they look, feel or sound like. These little audios are perfect for helping you expand into seeing what is possible for you, and priming your brain for success.
Including topics like...
- Calling in new clients
- The perfect launch
- Elevating your income
- Speaking confidently on stage, podcasts and live video
- Writing content with ease
Here’s a closer look at our time together…
Pre-work
- Let’s get you set up for success! Learn how to make the most of this program + create the greatest return on your investment - forever.
Module 1: How your Mind Impacts Reality - The Science
- Understand the science of how our mind, emotions and behaviour co-create our realities - this module is crucial for dispelling the myths and pseudoscience that has been keeping you from being a self-coaching master.
Module 2: Your Bigger Dreams
- How to decide on and reach for the semi-delusional goals that your heart actually wants, even if you doubt that it’s possible.
- This module gives you permission to decide what goals are really just ‘shoulds’ and instead, invites you into clarifying the biggest dreams that you have on your heart. We use this intention to guide your transformation throughout the rest of our course.
Module 3: Transmuting Resistance
- Did you know that the procrastination, fear, doubt and ‘self sabotage’ that we experience is actually quite simple to coach yourself through?
- In this module you’ll learn the difference between ‘creation resistance’ vs ‘experience resistance’, and the behavioural-science-backed process to identify and self coach through each of these.
- This module is absolutely crucial for any entrepreneur or leader who has big aspirations for their life, because this process will save you hours of wasted time and energy trying to ‘push’ through old habits of resistance.
Module 4: Creating Internal Alignment
- Think of your expectations, beliefs and perceptions as members of your team. We want them all ‘aligned’ to the goals, so that everyone is moving in the same direction.
- In this module, we teach you the psychology-backed strategies to safely and effectively ‘get your mind on board’ so that you’re seeing and feeling your reality shift day by day.
- You’ll also learn why ‘high vibe’ isn’t required, and how to play with ‘energetic lead measures’ - these are the key to sustainable growth and reaching even your most delusional goals.
Module 5: Creating External Alignment
- Ah yes, the most important part. Your mind impacts reality, absolutely, but your biggest opportunity for change? Your behaviour. How you show up, act, speak, behave in the world.
- This is where you learn to impact your mind using your behaviour, so that you are continually upgrading your reality from all directions. Mind, behaviour and emotions are all working together in cohesion.
Module 6: The Experiment | Putting It All Into Play
- In 2021, I decided to put all of this to the test and I created a 30 day experiment for myself to truly master and test out the impact of this work. When I saw and felt the huge changes to my life and business, I knew that I had to teach this. Since then, I’ve taught this to hundreds of entrepreneurs and now, you’re invited too.
- In this module, I’ll show you how to bring all of these tools together into a simple process that will have you changing your reality in just 20 minutes a day.
Module 7: Self Coaching Strategies
- “Mindset work” isn’t just about aligning your mind and behaviour to the desires you have. Gosh, absolutely not! We live in a world where are continually bombarded with situations that can pull us out of ‘our magic…’
- When life throws sh*t at you (client complaints, family drama, ‘failed launches’ etc etc), how do you coach yourself to create the ‘upward spiral effect’ when all you want to do is downward spiral and eat your feelings?
- I’ll give you simple self coaching strategies so that you can grab your journal, coach yourself to the shift you need, and carry on with your life.
Module 8: Growing Past Your Upper Limits
- What happens once you get to the goal and it becomes your new reality? In this module, you’ll learn how to hold the new reality as your standard, so that it sustains, rather than being afraid that you’re going to lose it all overnight.
- This is where life and business starts to get really, really sweet. You learn that you could truly achieve anything that you set your mind to - this is the power of a truly self led life.
PLUS - A bank of bonuses:
PEP TALKS
These are pre-recorded audios for the moments when you need to a little extra perspective shift, choose your topic and tune in - you'll hear exactly what I'd be saying to a client in this position:
- for when you don’t believe it’s possible
- for when you’re afraid of taking action
- for when you’re procrastinating
- for when a launch didn’t go to plan
- for preparing for a launch
- for when you're feeling uninspired
- for when a client is unhappy
- for when a client wants to quit
- for when you want to put your prices up
These are like having a coach in your pocket, when you need some perspective!
GUIDED VISUALISATION SCRIPTS
For when you need inspiration and connection to new potential realities
Sometimes, it's really hard to tap into new potentials when you don't even know what they look, feel or sound like. These little audios are perfect for helping you expand into seeing what is possible for you, and priming your brain for success.
Including topics like...
- Calling in new clients
- The perfect launch
- Elevating your income
- Speaking confidently on stage, podcasts and live video
- Writing content with ease
When you enrol in You Are The Magic,
you'll get access to:
🌟 The Pre-Work (valued at $297)
🌟 All 8 Modules (valued at $1997)
🌟 The Bonuses (valued at $997)
Total Value: $3291
It's a pleasure to meet you!
Hey! I'm Carly.
After many years and hundreds of coaching clients, I’ve noticed that the clients who go the furthest, the fastest, are the ones who are highly self aware, have a solid understanding of their own psychology AND are the ones who have an active self coaching practise.
They're the ones who learn pretty damn quick that there's nothing more magical than their own self-belief.
But the thing is - self belief and 'being in your power' are SKILLS.
I believe that everyone deserves to be equipped with these self coaching skills so that they can confidently move towards their big goals, faster, and with less struggle. Don't you agree?
Got Q's?
We got answers!
I already have my own coach, will I still benefit from this?
Absolutely yes...
This work is foundational, and I have every single one of my mastermind and private clients take this course at the start of our work together.
They all tell me that they got SO much more out of our coaching together because they were able to self lead more effectively and therefore got to bring more expansive topics to our coaching sessions.
YATM is built to be a great addition to your work with your coach!
I already know how to self coach (I think) - will I learn anything new?
I can’t say for certain because I’m not inside your head, BUT I do know that pop psychology and self proclaimed coaching masters have led a lot of people astray.
Are you keen to learn psychology-based strategies, taught by someone who has spent 15 years being educated and trained in this? Then come and join us!
I don’t have a business (yet), will this be useful for me?
Absolutely.
While this course is targeted for business owners, the principles and strategies are applicable across your career, relationships, finances - all areas of life, really!
If you’ve got big ambitions for your life and you want to learn to self lead through resistance, blocks, distractions, sabotage, procrastination etc... this is the place to be!
Still have questions?
Send us a message (assistant@carlyanna.co) and let us know you need help. We’ll see if You Are The Magic is the right fit for you.
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